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The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Ah... maybe write a letter and give it to them? Sometimes I find it easier to say things in writing than face to face... Or you could, idk, bring up the subject and see how they react to it, like just talk about ... characters on tv who're gay/bi/etc., or laws about it being passed, or something... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Hum, what part do you want to tell them? That you're male, or pan/bi (which would you wanna say?)? I... only have experience with one really... and it was super-hard... But I know it's much easier with friends and siblings than parents, ahaha. So I'd suggest telling close friends first and... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Wah Byrus I hope you feel better soon ;n; I'm glad the surgery went well though! I know surgery recovery from top-surgery was no fun so I can't imagine going through that... Take lots of pain killers and watch some cute movies and eat some chocolate... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
The fact that their gender =/= assigned gender at birth? -
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The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
How are we supposed to answer these? I'm pretty sure there haven't been any surveys done. And for the last question, really, how should anyone know how the future looks? -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
I really recommend you try and find a different therapist, if you can, because a) that is utter bullshit and b) there are therapists who aren't bullshit. All it takes is a simple understanding that 'this person does not do social things + being prevented from transitioning causes social/general... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
:[ I offer hugs if you want them... This brings up an issue that I've been wondering about, which I guess for most people might seem silly, but it's really confusing for me. Which is simply, like, why do people do mean things...? Like, that dude you mentioned who would try to trigger you on... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Heyyy congrats man!!! Super jealous u_u Buttt I've had major surgery, so I can at least calm you down I think - there's really nothing to worry about! Doctors are all super lovely people, you go in they give you like, calming drugs, then the anesthesiologist knocks you out and you wake up and... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Well, queer also applies to gender, so that doesn't really makes sense. But you don't have to use the label if you don't want, obviously. -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
9_9 story?? If anyone knows what shabbat entails, we sort of have dinner and lunch with neighbors, either at their house or ours. So we just had dinner at our neighbors and their 18-or-so-year-old son had friends over. My brother and I got into a huge argument because we're both the sort of... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Honestly I've become tempted to just buy t off of ebay. -_- If I knew the right prescription, I'd do that. Sigh. Made even more ridiculous because t is actually free in israel once you get it prescribed. If that ever happens. re: losing friends, I haven't. I'm so picky with friends to begin... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
It is. I've been waiting months just for this goddamn endocrinologist to get back to me after the months of therapy and. :| Blah. -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
It's different wherever you are. It's more logical to assume that if you've known you're trans for over a year, you shouldn't have to go through that ridiculous 'real life experience'. (I don't support the whole year thing either way, honestly.) -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Oh I completely forgot! White Collar has lesbians. Well, only one is a main character, but. She's pretty cool. The show itself isn't mind-blowing but it's good enough? And has lesbians, so. (Also Matt Bomer, who is awesome and gay irl.) -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
No Jawn and Sherlock are definitely a couple. They're an ace couple but Sherlock at least is in a relationship with Jawn whether Jawn realizes it or not. This is my canon get out. >| (Honestly though it happens a lot with ace people that one will latch onto a person and the other will not... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
I'd say try going as female online, see how it works for you. -
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The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
weh I'm too tired/spoonless to add to much of this but having watched Nip/Tuck, I can say that no one on the show is likeable for any reason. It's one of those black and grey morality/Sliding Scale of Idealism Versus Cynicism shows, where the grey/idealism is nearly nonexistent. The main... -
The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)
Yes! I saw it! I was furious. I had the same reaction; House has been going downhill slowly for years but it was never so ridiculously offensive. :| Uhg... now I feel bitter about House in general which is just sad because I used to love him... stupid writers.